How do I respond when my authority is challenged?

A reflection on humility and control.

“The test of leadership is not when things go your way, but when they don’t.” – John Maxwell

Context and Insight

Leaders often feel defensive when questioned. True strength lies in listening, not lashing out.

Why This Matters for Servant Leadership

Servant leaders invite dialogue rather than demand compliance, creating psychological safety and respect.

Personal Application

  • Pause before responding defensively today.
  • Thank someone who offers a different view.
  • Ask clarifying questions before explaining your stance.

Invitation

Respond with curiosity, not control, in your next challenge.

  • Listening
  • Humility
  • Conflict Resolution

For more questions like this, explore  The Reflective Leader.