Do I listen without judgment?

A reflection on authentic listening.

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen Covey

Context and Insight

True listening requires openness, not preloaded opinions. Judgment shuts down honesty.

Why This Matters for Servant Leadership

Servant leaders listen to understand, making others feel valued and safe.

Personal Application

  • In your next conversation, repeat back what you heard before responding.
  • Ask two clarifying questions before giving your opinion.
  • Remove distractions and give full attention.

Invitation

Spend one meeting listening more than speaking.

  • Empathy
  • Communication
  • Trust

For more questions like this, explore  The Reflective Leader.